FREAKY FEMALE FRIDAY!!
How many of you have read the latest erotic sensation "50 Shades of Grey"? It's being dubbed as mommy porn by many. I personally feel that rubs me the wrong way. You don't hear online adult films or Playboys being referred to as "daddy porn". Why do they feel the need to differentiate female erotica? I think every female whether you carry a mommy card or not, can benefit from some X rated action or literature.
I started to read the 50 Shades of Grey series. I only got partially through the first book. I found it a tad slow and almost...juvenile? I'm not sure if that's the right term. Perhaps it was too sweet and passionate for my liking. There is a scene that involves light bondage and includes the F word a couple of times. I didn't even break into a sweat while reading it. My heart rate didn't kick up at all. You can find the excerpt for that here http://darhkportal.com/2012/04/frisky-friday-fifty-shades-of-grey-excerpt-with-giveaway
Actually, now that I think about it... it's probably because I've lived out that scene in my sex life. So I'm not reading anything considered a fantasy. Truthfully, in my opinion, my own personal experience was much hotter and explicit. Maybe that's why I found the above to be lacking. The reviews on the book series seem to be good though so it must be working for a lot of women!
The one series that I absolutely L-O-V-E-D (as in have read it over and over) is the Anne Rice Sleeping Beauty Trilogy. I like that it's such a naughty twist on a classic. Shame on her for making Beauty such a hussy! In this version the Prince wakes her with much more than a simple kiss.
"Here the Prince reawakens Beauty, not with a kiss, but with sexual initiation. His reward for ending the hundred years of enchantment is Beauty's complete and total enslavement to him."
They aren't kidding when they say total enslavement either. It's full on kink with a interesting story line. I'm wide open about sex and not much about it causes me to blush, but this book does at times. One of the main things I dig about it is how utterly graphic and visual it is. When she talks about Beauty being punished by a whip, my own bum starts to burn. It's that vivid. Throughout all 3 books in this trilogy there is S&M. Master and slave dynamics. Beauty starts her journey as a scared and naive girl who is unfamiliar with sex. By the end she owns her sexuality and rocks it out! My kinda girl. I certainly got some ideas from this set not to mention got me thinking of things I haven't tried but would like to!
A friend of mine recommended The Black Dagger Brotherhood series. I haven't read it yet but am looking forward to it after her gushing (pun totally intended) review!
" Black Dagger is about vampires. There art 10 books so far. If you're like me and can read a book every few days you will love that theres always one to come. Literally, he he."
If any of my readers have suggestions to add to the readers list please comment below!
So, we hit on written erotica. How about actual porn ladies? Is it a thumbs up or down? For me personally it's a must and pretty much a part of my weekly routine. I don't have time for the real deal usually so this a great and ever changing way for me to get mine. I don't know if any of you are familiar with those kinds of sites, but they mostly cater to the other sex. There is usually a section for women specifically. In my experience those videos are usually booooring. I don't mind romance and all that in my real life but when I'm watching a video I want the nitty gritty animalistic stuff! Am I the only one? I've been told I think like a fella so maybe I'm just sexually twisted, LOL.
I'd love to get some feedback on the female's viewpoint on "Self Lovin" so if you're up to it please take a moment to participate in my survey!
In the spirit of FREAKY FEMALES here is some musical inspiration :)
"Express yourself, don't regress yourself"
Still one of my fave dirty songs!
This one does have explicit language so bypass it if you are easily offended! I like it ;)
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but chains and whips excite me"
** I hope that no one here was offended, but I DID put that it contained adult content in the title!
Just as an FYI I would love to do a relationship/love/sex/advice post weekly if at all possible, so if you have any ideas or suggestions for that please let me know! Thanks!**
<3 Thena
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